How to reconnect and still be the mom??
So, I want to have fun with my children and spend time with them, gain they're trust. How do i that and still be the parent? I don't want to get in trouble with dad, and no longer be able to see him. I am making up for lost time and need to earn some cool points with a 9 year old little boy. Well today I did it, it was a rollercoaster of emotions from I dont want to see you take me home! Quickly to us having a blast playing in the mud and him wanting to stay the night. I know today could have went so much worse and I will leave the details out for the I the parent let the kid have too much fun and I do not know where the parking brake is on the fourwheeler. Well, needless to say I got us both in trouble and now I am scared his dad will keep me from seeing him. I am just trying to earn a spot in my sons heart! And i feel like I can do no right in his dad's eyes no matter what i do. So what do i do now ? I want to have a relationship with his dad on coparenting nothing else!! Why cant he understand that it's important for us to get along!!